If there is anything I've learned in living on this planet for just about 50 years, its don't blow the time you've got. We all get sick, get hurt, feel bad, want more, get irritated and short tempered, and sometimes we just plain old can't and more frequently don't want to move toward some painful point or position in our lives.
Living with Parkinson's Disease for the past 10 years has made me acutely aware of the time I have left... and that the time I have left is not guaranteed by anyone, anywhere.
DON'T BLOW THE TIME YOU HAVE LEFT BY SQUANDERING IT ON SOMETHING PETTY.
Make PEACE when you can and politely and patiently WAIT until the time is right when you can't. Say and mean YOU are sorry when YOU say you are sorry. Get over YOUR pride, because only YOU own, gauge, and set the level that you work and live with.
What's more important? The pain YOU feel and carry? Condemnation and retribution? Forgiving and forgetting? It truly is YOUR call and YOUR decision. I hope we can all get a bit closer to each other during the time that remains in each of our lives.
When we die, we lose all second chances to make a difference.
Campy Out!
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Navy Officer Killed on SR16 Monday Jan 23, 2011
This is pretty sad.
Driving to my hospital appointment on Monday was tricky. Deep black ice had set in through out most of the roads in South Kitsap and Tacoma, due to the snow melt, rain, and sudden drip in temp. I had heard that the highway was backed up because of an accident. I figured it was pretty bad because I've seen long stretches of highway and the Tacoma Narrows Bridge freeze over. In fact Sue and I were involved in a multiple car pile up, on the bridge, two years ago that totaled our car and sent Sue to the hospital. We both walked away from that accident, purely by accident.
I passed the accident around 8am looking down on it from a local side road. Looked like a real mess. I remember thinking, "Shit that's bad!"
My friend got a call later in the day from his wife who told him that someone had died in the accident. I got bummed.
Today in the news, I learned that Navy LCDR Regina Mills died in the accident. She had stopped on the side of the road to help someone who had lost control of their motor cycle. A police officer, the motor cycle driver, and Mills were talking on the side of the road, unhurt, when another car lost control and slammed into the cars pushing them into the group injuring the police officer and motorcyclist, and killing LCDR Mills.
Here's the article from the Kitsap Sun: Navy Officer Killed on Washington SR 16
LCDR MIlls as interviewed on the PBS documentary "CARRIER"
It always sucks when someone dies. Somehow it feels a little worse when someone dies was helping someone else.
Campy Out!
Driving to my hospital appointment on Monday was tricky. Deep black ice had set in through out most of the roads in South Kitsap and Tacoma, due to the snow melt, rain, and sudden drip in temp. I had heard that the highway was backed up because of an accident. I figured it was pretty bad because I've seen long stretches of highway and the Tacoma Narrows Bridge freeze over. In fact Sue and I were involved in a multiple car pile up, on the bridge, two years ago that totaled our car and sent Sue to the hospital. We both walked away from that accident, purely by accident.
I passed the accident around 8am looking down on it from a local side road. Looked like a real mess. I remember thinking, "Shit that's bad!"
My friend got a call later in the day from his wife who told him that someone had died in the accident. I got bummed.
Today in the news, I learned that Navy LCDR Regina Mills died in the accident. She had stopped on the side of the road to help someone who had lost control of their motor cycle. A police officer, the motor cycle driver, and Mills were talking on the side of the road, unhurt, when another car lost control and slammed into the cars pushing them into the group injuring the police officer and motorcyclist, and killing LCDR Mills.
Here's the article from the Kitsap Sun: Navy Officer Killed on Washington SR 16
LCDR MIlls as interviewed on the PBS documentary "CARRIER"
It always sucks when someone dies. Somehow it feels a little worse when someone dies was helping someone else.
Campy Out!
Religious Tolerance
The whole individual religious affiliation in politics thing kind of cracks me up. I mean just try putting a nativity scene on public land or try and throw a Christmas party, and just wait for the law suits aiming maintain the separation of Church and State. But run for public office, any office, and the topic of personal religious beliefs is paramount.
Campy Out!
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
The Power of Music
This is just too darn cool not to post. Thanks to an old shipmate, Capt Walsh.
The Power of Music from Life File Videos on Vimeo.
This really made my day.
Campy Out!
The Power of Music from Life File Videos on Vimeo.
This really made my day.
Campy Out!
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Chief said, "NO SNOWMEN!"
Chief the wonder dog, either likes or really hates snowballs. Check him out!
Campy Out!
Campy Out!
Wicked Cool Guitar Playing
I know! I know! Yet another Wicked Cool music video... This one reminded me of indigenous hunters who use every part of the animal they kill.
Name of the group: Walk Off The Earth
Song: Somebody That I Used to Know
Campy Out!
Name of the group: Walk Off The Earth
Song: Somebody That I Used to Know
Campy Out!
Monday, January 16, 2012
Another Timelapse Show... Wicked Cool!
Film: Relentless,
By: Guido Perrini, Photographer
Found on: www.vimeo.com
Eye Candy HD TimeLapses - TimeLine bonus 1 from TimeLine Film on Vimeo.
Campy Out!
By: Guido Perrini, Photographer
Found on: www.vimeo.com
Eye Candy HD TimeLapses - TimeLine bonus 1 from TimeLine Film on Vimeo.
Campy Out!
Friday, January 13, 2012
So Long My Dear Friend...
To the Valeff Family
Man, I'm so bummed for you guys.
Your mom and dad will always be a significant hallmark in my life. A hallmark that I will never forget and will always cherish. From our whiffle ball games in the Spring and Summer, to snowmobiling during the Great Blizzard of 77, to late night Uno games, to Glen driving my VW Bug, and many other wonderful memories. Your family was a large part of my life growing up. And I owe so much to Aunty Bev and Uncle Bill for their open hearted acceptance of this rough around the edges kid and for showing me another side of how families should be.
I will play Uno tonight with shortbread cookies and a cup of hot tea... and I will cry. Aunty Bev and Uncle Bill are together again... sometimes the waiting seems So Long, which is why I never say Good Bye.
So Long Aunty Bev!
Most Sincerely, Humbly, and Respectfully,
Roger and the Chicklets
Please take a moment to read this obituary:
VALEFF, BEVERLY (BACCARI), 78, passed away peacefully at her home of 43 years on January 10th. She had been the wife of the late William Valeff, Sr. for 46 years. Born in Providence, she was the daughter of the late Enrico and Anna (Cataldo) Baccari. She grew up as one of eight children in the Eagle Park section of Providence, graduated from Central High School and worked outside the home as a seamstress. Beverly was a communicant of St. Edward's/St. Anthony Parish and enjoyed spending the cold weather months in Florida with her twin sister, Anna, along with other family and friends. She will be remembered for her everlasting smile and for her gentleness and kindness. Her greatest pleasure in life was her sharing of countless cups of tea and coffee with friends and family alike as they crowed around her kitchen table. She was the devoted mother of Glen J. Valeff of North Providence and William J. Valeff, Jr and his wife Sonya of Chicago, IL; cherished sister of Jenny Fede of Cranston, Anna Cooper of Punta Gorda, FL, Claire Bernardo of Providence, Harry Baccari of Providence, Louis Baccari of North Providence and the late Anthony and Philip Baccari. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Visitation will be held Friday, 5-8 p.m. in the PONTARELLI-MARINO Home, 971 Branch Avenue, Providence. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial Saturday at 9:15 a.m. in St. Anthony Church, 1413 Mineral Spring Avenue, North Providence, followed by a graveside burial in Swan Point Cemetery, Providence. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name may be made to the Hospice Program, VNA of Care New England, 51 Health Lane, Warwick, RI 02886. pontarellimarinofunerals.com
Man, I'm so bummed for you guys.
Your mom and dad will always be a significant hallmark in my life. A hallmark that I will never forget and will always cherish. From our whiffle ball games in the Spring and Summer, to snowmobiling during the Great Blizzard of 77, to late night Uno games, to Glen driving my VW Bug, and many other wonderful memories. Your family was a large part of my life growing up. And I owe so much to Aunty Bev and Uncle Bill for their open hearted acceptance of this rough around the edges kid and for showing me another side of how families should be.
I will play Uno tonight with shortbread cookies and a cup of hot tea... and I will cry. Aunty Bev and Uncle Bill are together again... sometimes the waiting seems So Long, which is why I never say Good Bye.
So Long Aunty Bev!
Most Sincerely, Humbly, and Respectfully,
Roger and the Chicklets
Please take a moment to read this obituary:
Obituary |
Beverly Valeff
| Visit Guest BookVALEFF, BEVERLY (BACCARI), 78, passed away peacefully at her home of 43 years on January 10th. She had been the wife of the late William Valeff, Sr. for 46 years. Born in Providence, she was the daughter of the late Enrico and Anna (Cataldo) Baccari. She grew up as one of eight children in the Eagle Park section of Providence, graduated from Central High School and worked outside the home as a seamstress. Beverly was a communicant of St. Edward's/St. Anthony Parish and enjoyed spending the cold weather months in Florida with her twin sister, Anna, along with other family and friends. She will be remembered for her everlasting smile and for her gentleness and kindness. Her greatest pleasure in life was her sharing of countless cups of tea and coffee with friends and family alike as they crowed around her kitchen table. She was the devoted mother of Glen J. Valeff of North Providence and William J. Valeff, Jr and his wife Sonya of Chicago, IL; cherished sister of Jenny Fede of Cranston, Anna Cooper of Punta Gorda, FL, Claire Bernardo of Providence, Harry Baccari of Providence, Louis Baccari of North Providence and the late Anthony and Philip Baccari. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Visitation will be held Friday, 5-8 p.m. in the PONTARELLI-MARINO Home, 971 Branch Avenue, Providence. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial Saturday at 9:15 a.m. in St. Anthony Church, 1413 Mineral Spring Avenue, North Providence, followed by a graveside burial in Swan Point Cemetery, Providence. In lieu of flowers, donations in her name may be made to the Hospice Program, VNA of Care New England, 51 Health Lane, Warwick, RI 02886. pontarellimarinofunerals.com Published in The Providence Journal on January 12, 2012
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Cool Post: A day in the life of glass, from Corning.
Pretty cool video. Imagine the not to distant future!
Campy Out!
Campy Out!
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Parkinson's Research
I am always humbled by the tireless efforts of disease researchers, disease foundation organizers and donors, and the army of positively motivated people who have been touched by any disease process let alone my favorite disease process of Parkinson's.
Here's a highlight from an interview with noted Parkinson's Researcher Professor Anders Björklun.
He's working for me and any one with dealing with brain robbing disease processes. My hat is off to Professor Bjorklun.
And another video from more of the Parkinson's Cure seeking team. MY BRAIN TRUST TEAM!
Campy Out!
Do what you can, when you can, for as long as you can.
Here's a highlight from an interview with noted Parkinson's Researcher Professor Anders Björklun.
He's working for me and any one with dealing with brain robbing disease processes. My hat is off to Professor Bjorklun.
And another video from more of the Parkinson's Cure seeking team. MY BRAIN TRUST TEAM!
Campy Out!
Do what you can, when you can, for as long as you can.
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